Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Chapter 44

Chapter 44
Almost that “S” word
“RELAX”
July-August 2015

“We’re going to be seniors,” I told my friend, as goosebumps covered my body. I said it again and again. Eventually he stopped me, and assured me that he understood, and he didn’t want to be reminded again.

When I began writing this book three years ago it began as a reflective tool for me as I experienced college. As I have matured I have found writing to be a great way to assist, motivate, and inspire future college students. I hope that each chapter has been engaging and encouraging, as I have felt led to share my stories with someone I haven’t ever met.

During an interview the other day I was asked if I had seen a change in myself from freshman year to now (almost a senior). I wasn’t sure how to answer the question because it was something that I had never thought about. Throughout my college career, I have always been on the go, dabbling in so many things, and not really paying much attention to how much the college experience has benefited my life.

Looking back- I hadn’t traveled at all, heck I didn’t have a passport, I really didn’t understand how a business worked, I had the mindset of a small town kid, and had no idea of what a global market looked like. Change is a big word, but I would say that my perspective has been broadened, I have learned so many different things, be it in the classroom and beyond, and I have built an extensive network.

I’m finding it difficult to wrap up one of the most exciting years of my life (junior year). However, today as I was at the lake with one of my childhood friends I was reminded that there’s still a lot to learn in this life.

My friend and his dad were Wake Surfing (a mix between surfing and wake boarding- you ride the wake that the boat makes), and after they finished they asked if I wanted to give it a try. I haven’t shared this, but I am not talented at any sport that involves balancing- skateboarding, rollerblading, skiing, wakeboarding, etc. But, I figured why not give this a try- I might be good at this…..

After what seemed like 100 tries later, I still hadn’t successfully pulled myself out of the water. I must have had the most discouraged look on my face because my friend’s dad looked at me and said something that I needed to hear for so many reasons. “Relax, relax. You can’t do it on your own, let the boat do the work. You’re trying to do it all on your own.” He didn’t know it, but that was the advice I needed in the water, as well as out of it. 100 more tries later it seemed, I still didn’t successfully land the board in the wake, but hey, there’s always another day and another lake.

Looking back to my senior year in high school, the feeling of being a senior was much different than it is now. I couldn’t wait for the year to be over, so I could start fresh in a college somewhere. However, when the year ended and the dust settled, I realized how blessed I was to be at that place in my life.

Now, as my senior year of college is days away from beginning, I’m anxious, scared, and motivated to make this the best year of college. I have so much still to learn, so much left to do, and so many more times to show off my school pride.

A few goals for my senior year:
1.       Become a better listener
2.       Be patient
3.       Get way too excited- “freshmanesque”
4.       Launch a full operating business (create my own job)
5.       Publish this book J

Quick update on my startup- Waterless Buddy’s
-          We we’re featured on a local news channel (ABC 11) & USA Today College
-          We we’re accepted into Launch Chapel Hill (accelerator on campus)
-          We partnered with a local Chick-Fil-A for another test market
-          People are super excited about us- gaining interest from FL, CA, and beyond


Thursday, July 2, 2015

Chapter 43

Chapter 43

21 years OLD

June 2015

If you google, "what happened on June 18, 1994" nothing much will come up. A world record was broken in the 100m freestyle, and a famous man died, but you wouldn't recognize his name, he was a "rose grower." My birthdate isn't a special day in the world’s eyes, but as I write this post, now as one year older, 21, I feel special to be alive and have the opportunity to live one more day.

21 isn't any different when u wake up, unless of course you have a rough night. I can now buy alcohol, gamble, and I'm a legal adult. I am free to make my own decisions, but now, yes now, I'll pay the full price.

As I approach my senior year of college, what some would classify as the last year of freedom, I begin to reflect. I reflect every morning as my 7am alarm sounds that sends me to my internship. I reflect on the summer days where I would wake up around 10:30, turn on the TV, maybe watch Fairly Odd Parents or Jimmy Neutron, throw some bagel bites in the microwave, and call my neighborhood friends on our HOUSE phone. Yes a HOUSE phone, which I haven't used in years. We'd ride bikes together, play basketball all day, build stuff, swim, fish, shoot each other with air-soft guns, get in trouble with our parents for playing too late, and all in all, we had few worries- we had it made.

I love reflecting on the past because it shows you where you've been and how you got where you are. Currently, I'm working an internship as an Entrepreneur-in-Residence at a small consumer product investment company. My job consists of working with a number of their different companies. It's my goal to increase sales and awareness of the products, my bosses have even encouraged me to find a new product to launch! In the 4 weeks that I've worked at my internship, I have enjoyed every minute. The experience has taught me so much about the business field and has encouraged me to think differently. In 3 years, I'll look back on this internship and smile, just as I smile about my childhood because there is a reason for me being where I am today. However, I'm not entirely sure what the pain of an air soft gun has to do with where I am today.

Three short years ago I was in the shoes of a graduated high school student. I was advising myself and you to relax. To take it all in, read a book, and to chill out because the "real world" was coming. Little did I know, that was great advice, except for the fact that the "real world" hadn't started. College is awesome. School, friends, events, games, I could go on and on. College is ONE of the best times of your life, but it's not the BEST time of your life. As I write, 10 months from college graduation, I have little idea of what's next in my life. However, I know it'll be incredible. Just think, if you acted like a young, energized college freshman every day, your life would be filled with joy.

Brad Paisleys song, letter to me, is one of my favorites. It's about a man reflecting on his own life, and if he could've written a letter to himself in the future what he would've said. At the end of the song Brad sings, “I guess I'll see you in the mirror, when you're a grown man, P.S go hug Aunt Rita every chance you can." I've listened to that song since I was 16, and it's still so true. Life sucks sometimes, but you've got to keep pushing and seeing the positive in the negatives.

Remember this: you turn 21 once, but make good decisions, and if you don't, clean them up.



Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Chapter 42



Chapter 42

South Africa- Global Immersion:

“2 clocks”

They were right, and then some. 

For so long, I listened to others’ stories about studying abroad and the incredible experiences they had in another country. And after sitting through numerous pre-departure sessions I was ready to experience a 2-week study abroad for myself in South Africa. 

On May 10, 2015, I checked another goal off my list as I departed from the Raleigh-Durham airport. My program consisted of visiting Johannesburg and Cape Town, and we would be in each city for about one week. I was joined by 31 of my fellow business students, and 3 faculty advisors. My trip to South Africa was only my second trip out of the country, and note that my college experience has been a huge factor in increasing my “travel bugginess.” And I love it. However, this was another huge step for me, this time I would be traveling way out of my comfort zone, 8,027 miles out of my comfort zone. 

If you have never traveled to South Africa, please be aware that the flight is long, the planes are huge, and you may experience jet lag (no, you will experience it). In total, the flights took 20+ hours, this consisted of a layover in London, and a 12hr flight across the continent of Africa. 

My group and I arrived in Johannesburg at 7AM May 12th, and began our day at 11AM. 

Johannesburg (Jo’burg):

Before making the trek to South Africa, I had very clouded views of the country. The American media has polluted my mind with sights of animals running wild, dry, deserted towns, and no hope for opportunity. However, I quickly learned that all were false. 

During our first day we visited the African Leadership Academy (ALA). The ALA is an academy that is similar to a high school, but has students ages 16-19 from 44 countries in Africa, and has a lower acceptance rate than Harvard. While at the ALA we spoke with a few of their bright students about some of their entrepreneurial endeavors. For example, Genesis, a young guy from Cameroon, was interested in starting his own paper bag company that would help with the high unemployment rates of his home country. Hearing the stories from these students was such an eye opening experience for my career. Each student was more passionate about helping his/her community than making a profit. 

While in Johannesburg we stayed in an affluent area, so affluent that we were in the richest square mile of all of Africa. For those of you unaware, South Africa is the most unequal country in the World, with more than a 50% unemployment rate, and the average person lives on $1.50/day. Just outside of the little affluent area I was staying, were 700,000 South Africans that live in strict poverty. These people live in shanty towns, called Townships. Townships were created during the apartheid era, and were used to keep the black Africans out of the white African areas. 

Although these areas seem desperate, and hopeless, I was able to see a side to the story that the American media rarely talks about. We ventured to Soweto, which is the home of Nelson Mandela. On the drive from Jo’burg to Soweto, we slowly saw a change in scenery. The large houses with even bigger fences began to disappear, and the small shacks began to multiply. While in the township we saw a protest, in which the citizens of Soweto were protesting the load shedding issue in South Africa. In order to conserve energy for the country, the government has to shut down power for extended periods of time, which is slowing the growth of their economy. We also got to visit a local restaurant called Sakhumzi. The food was different. Way different. They served intestines, lamb, and some other things that I can’t even describe. I probably wouldn’t go back to that restaurant, but hey, it’s all about the experience. 

My favorite part about Jo’burg was meeting local entrepreneurs, and hearing their life stories. We met Askar, a Somalin that ventured to South Africa while he was a young teenager. He made his way by boat, car, bus, and train, until he eventually arrived with only the clothes on his back. However, he didn’t let his lack of resources hold him back. He became a hawker, which is someone that sales arts/crafts to tourists. This job was very dangerous because he had to travel from Jo’burg, to Cape Town by train with all of his goods. On one occasion, he met face to face with a thief, who stabbed him in the stomach with a knife. Luckily, he made it to the hospital in time for a quick recovery. As Askar told his story, I was inspired. Not just because he defied the odds, but that he never gave up, and he was one of the most sincere individuals I had ever met. He continued to tell us that he started a local supermarket after he quit selling goods on the street, which eventually got him to where he is today, working for Barclays. In only a few days in South Africa (Jo’burg), I had already learned so much. I put my negotiated skills to work as I bartered a UNC shirt for some goods at a local market, I learned that the World is huge, and has endless opportunity, and finally, South Africa is on the rise, I saw it up close and personal. 

Cape Town:

After about a week in Jo’burg we hopped on a two hour plane ride to Cape Town. Most of the group was most excited about Cape Town because it is known for being a more touristy area, and has been compared geographically with San Francisco. And with my first glimpse of Cape Town from the airplane, I too could see the resemblance. 

Our week in Cape Town was a lot like the week in Jo’burg, but with a few added bonuses. We heard from many different speakers, saw different companies, visited townships, but we also got to go on a safari, and swim with Great White sharks. 

In our time at Mflueni, a small township in Cape Town, we interacted with the entrepreneurs yet again. This time however, we were selling SIM cards, and winter coats on the street. This was another huge learning experience because we selling items to people that could barely afford the items that we were selling them, and my country accent didn’t help the cause. During the time my group was selling, we only sold one SIM card. While on the street corner people gave us a strange looks, but wouldn’t you if a whole group of non-American students rolled into your neighborhood selling SIM cards?

As you might guess some of the academic parts of the trip weren’t as exciting as selling SIM cards to local South Africans. However, being with 31 classmates, it made the boring sessions worthwhile. In our final debrief session of the trip on Friday night, May 22, I shared that my favorite part of the trip was getting to know all of my fellow classmates. While in class/college, it becomes difficult to branch out and meet new friends all the time. You will find yourself sticking with a core group of friends for the entirety of college. This trip allowed me to really get to know some people I had never met. I challenged the group to stay connected with the people they met on the trip because there is a great possibility that they will never again go on a journey with 31 people of their same age. Following the final debrief session, we had dinner and went straight to bed because at 5:15 am, 25 of us would board a bus to swim with Great White Sharks. 

Since learning about the global immersion to South Africa, I have wanted to swim with Great White Sharks. Why? I really don’t know, but for some reason I just felt the need to meet face to face with JAWS. 

South Africa is home to “shark alley.” Every year Discovery channel films Great White Sharks at “shark alley” for their features on Shark Week, and my classmates, and I were about to get into a cage where those big sharks swim. As the boat made its way from the shore, I began to get more and more nervous. Then the eight person cage was dropped into the water, and the “chum man” started chumming. 

Within minutes a large gray object darted by, probably 9 feet long, a “small one”, the guides said. Being the impatient one, I wanted to be the first group in the water. I nervously pulled on the wet suit, strapped on the GoPro camera, and hopped into the water. 

“Left, down, down down,” the guide yelled as Great Whites darted by the cage. I came up out of the water yelling in excitement. This was the coolest thing I had ever done. During some parts of the dive I thought I was watching a video, it just didn’t seem real. Then, all of a sudden, this huge object appeared from my right side. “Was that Megaledon?” I screamingly asked the guide. Megaledon, is arguably this huge dinosaur like shark that the people from Discovery Channel made an entire show about one year during Shark Week. He laughed, and said no, but it was one of the biggest sharks they had seen in years. It was roughly 5 meters, which is over 16 feet long. 

I meant it when I said this was going to be a BIG year, a BIG year for me, and a big, great white shark year.

I could write on, and on about my experience abroad, but it wouldn’t do you any good. You have to go. Have to go. No matter the cost, a trip in another country with students/friends your age, is priceless. When I applied to go to South Africa, I really didn’t know why I wanted to go, yeah it was a goal of mine to study abroad for some time, but I didn’t know why exactly. I do now. It was for me to meet new people, learn new, exciting things, and for me to be humbled. The people in the townships lived in houses, that most people in America wouldn’t consider a house. However, these people love their community, are not giving up, and are super optimistic about the future. 

One of the guys on the trip reminded me of an old analogy. There are two clocks in this world, a world clock, which is circular, and your clock, which is an hour glass. Time is not on your side, so you must do BIG, great things while hear on earth. Maybe it’s singing your school’s alma mater in a foreign country, or as little as making small conversation to a stranger on a plane, just go, time is wasting.  

Askar and I



Sunday, May 10, 2015

Chapter 41



Chapter 41
3 down, 1 to go
It’s beautiful
May 2015

Every single day something beautiful happens. No matter what. 

On May 5, 2015, I took my last final as an undergraduate junior. 3 years are gone, and only one remains. On the morning of my first exam, I woke up before my alarm to be blessed with a reminder. My alarm, set for exactly 6:50am, didn’t do any good that morning because God was showing me something beautiful. I woke up to the sun rising and shining its radiant beams through my bedside window.  Awestruck by its beauty I raced outside to snap a photo. Picture taking in the morning, while your phone is suspended in the air 10 flights up, can be quite nerve wrecking. However, I successfully snapped the picture without any harm to my phone, and captured something beautiful.
Throughout my time in college, my eyes have been opened to bigger things other than the rising sun. I have met successful people, been new places, and have learned how to do a statement of cash flows. I know you’re jealous about the last one. I’ve learned that college can truly open your eyes to HUGE beautiful things. I have said a thousand times, but I am from Valdese, NC. A small, quaint town that has a special place in my heart. However, Valdese was holding me back. College has my back. If you let it, college can do some beautiful things. 

A year from today, Mothers’ Day, I will graduate from college. A new chapter will end, and another will begin. It’s scary, exciting, and all the other emotions you can think up. However, when I was driving home after my final exam on May 5, I was reminded of something.
Every single day the sun rises, and the sun sets. That day I saw both. It was beautiful. It reminded me that no matter your status in life (college, marriage, or retirement) you have to take time to appreciate the beautiful things in life. As I wait to board a flight to London, which will eventually take me to South Africa, I wonder, what’s next? What is the next sight I will see that will take my breath away, or that will give me a new perspective? What it will be, I will never know, but God has been doing HUGE things in my life, and I know it will be something beautiful!