Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Chapter 42



Chapter 42

South Africa- Global Immersion:

“2 clocks”

They were right, and then some. 

For so long, I listened to others’ stories about studying abroad and the incredible experiences they had in another country. And after sitting through numerous pre-departure sessions I was ready to experience a 2-week study abroad for myself in South Africa. 

On May 10, 2015, I checked another goal off my list as I departed from the Raleigh-Durham airport. My program consisted of visiting Johannesburg and Cape Town, and we would be in each city for about one week. I was joined by 31 of my fellow business students, and 3 faculty advisors. My trip to South Africa was only my second trip out of the country, and note that my college experience has been a huge factor in increasing my “travel bugginess.” And I love it. However, this was another huge step for me, this time I would be traveling way out of my comfort zone, 8,027 miles out of my comfort zone. 

If you have never traveled to South Africa, please be aware that the flight is long, the planes are huge, and you may experience jet lag (no, you will experience it). In total, the flights took 20+ hours, this consisted of a layover in London, and a 12hr flight across the continent of Africa. 

My group and I arrived in Johannesburg at 7AM May 12th, and began our day at 11AM. 

Johannesburg (Jo’burg):

Before making the trek to South Africa, I had very clouded views of the country. The American media has polluted my mind with sights of animals running wild, dry, deserted towns, and no hope for opportunity. However, I quickly learned that all were false. 

During our first day we visited the African Leadership Academy (ALA). The ALA is an academy that is similar to a high school, but has students ages 16-19 from 44 countries in Africa, and has a lower acceptance rate than Harvard. While at the ALA we spoke with a few of their bright students about some of their entrepreneurial endeavors. For example, Genesis, a young guy from Cameroon, was interested in starting his own paper bag company that would help with the high unemployment rates of his home country. Hearing the stories from these students was such an eye opening experience for my career. Each student was more passionate about helping his/her community than making a profit. 

While in Johannesburg we stayed in an affluent area, so affluent that we were in the richest square mile of all of Africa. For those of you unaware, South Africa is the most unequal country in the World, with more than a 50% unemployment rate, and the average person lives on $1.50/day. Just outside of the little affluent area I was staying, were 700,000 South Africans that live in strict poverty. These people live in shanty towns, called Townships. Townships were created during the apartheid era, and were used to keep the black Africans out of the white African areas. 

Although these areas seem desperate, and hopeless, I was able to see a side to the story that the American media rarely talks about. We ventured to Soweto, which is the home of Nelson Mandela. On the drive from Jo’burg to Soweto, we slowly saw a change in scenery. The large houses with even bigger fences began to disappear, and the small shacks began to multiply. While in the township we saw a protest, in which the citizens of Soweto were protesting the load shedding issue in South Africa. In order to conserve energy for the country, the government has to shut down power for extended periods of time, which is slowing the growth of their economy. We also got to visit a local restaurant called Sakhumzi. The food was different. Way different. They served intestines, lamb, and some other things that I can’t even describe. I probably wouldn’t go back to that restaurant, but hey, it’s all about the experience. 

My favorite part about Jo’burg was meeting local entrepreneurs, and hearing their life stories. We met Askar, a Somalin that ventured to South Africa while he was a young teenager. He made his way by boat, car, bus, and train, until he eventually arrived with only the clothes on his back. However, he didn’t let his lack of resources hold him back. He became a hawker, which is someone that sales arts/crafts to tourists. This job was very dangerous because he had to travel from Jo’burg, to Cape Town by train with all of his goods. On one occasion, he met face to face with a thief, who stabbed him in the stomach with a knife. Luckily, he made it to the hospital in time for a quick recovery. As Askar told his story, I was inspired. Not just because he defied the odds, but that he never gave up, and he was one of the most sincere individuals I had ever met. He continued to tell us that he started a local supermarket after he quit selling goods on the street, which eventually got him to where he is today, working for Barclays. In only a few days in South Africa (Jo’burg), I had already learned so much. I put my negotiated skills to work as I bartered a UNC shirt for some goods at a local market, I learned that the World is huge, and has endless opportunity, and finally, South Africa is on the rise, I saw it up close and personal. 

Cape Town:

After about a week in Jo’burg we hopped on a two hour plane ride to Cape Town. Most of the group was most excited about Cape Town because it is known for being a more touristy area, and has been compared geographically with San Francisco. And with my first glimpse of Cape Town from the airplane, I too could see the resemblance. 

Our week in Cape Town was a lot like the week in Jo’burg, but with a few added bonuses. We heard from many different speakers, saw different companies, visited townships, but we also got to go on a safari, and swim with Great White sharks. 

In our time at Mflueni, a small township in Cape Town, we interacted with the entrepreneurs yet again. This time however, we were selling SIM cards, and winter coats on the street. This was another huge learning experience because we selling items to people that could barely afford the items that we were selling them, and my country accent didn’t help the cause. During the time my group was selling, we only sold one SIM card. While on the street corner people gave us a strange looks, but wouldn’t you if a whole group of non-American students rolled into your neighborhood selling SIM cards?

As you might guess some of the academic parts of the trip weren’t as exciting as selling SIM cards to local South Africans. However, being with 31 classmates, it made the boring sessions worthwhile. In our final debrief session of the trip on Friday night, May 22, I shared that my favorite part of the trip was getting to know all of my fellow classmates. While in class/college, it becomes difficult to branch out and meet new friends all the time. You will find yourself sticking with a core group of friends for the entirety of college. This trip allowed me to really get to know some people I had never met. I challenged the group to stay connected with the people they met on the trip because there is a great possibility that they will never again go on a journey with 31 people of their same age. Following the final debrief session, we had dinner and went straight to bed because at 5:15 am, 25 of us would board a bus to swim with Great White Sharks. 

Since learning about the global immersion to South Africa, I have wanted to swim with Great White Sharks. Why? I really don’t know, but for some reason I just felt the need to meet face to face with JAWS. 

South Africa is home to “shark alley.” Every year Discovery channel films Great White Sharks at “shark alley” for their features on Shark Week, and my classmates, and I were about to get into a cage where those big sharks swim. As the boat made its way from the shore, I began to get more and more nervous. Then the eight person cage was dropped into the water, and the “chum man” started chumming. 

Within minutes a large gray object darted by, probably 9 feet long, a “small one”, the guides said. Being the impatient one, I wanted to be the first group in the water. I nervously pulled on the wet suit, strapped on the GoPro camera, and hopped into the water. 

“Left, down, down down,” the guide yelled as Great Whites darted by the cage. I came up out of the water yelling in excitement. This was the coolest thing I had ever done. During some parts of the dive I thought I was watching a video, it just didn’t seem real. Then, all of a sudden, this huge object appeared from my right side. “Was that Megaledon?” I screamingly asked the guide. Megaledon, is arguably this huge dinosaur like shark that the people from Discovery Channel made an entire show about one year during Shark Week. He laughed, and said no, but it was one of the biggest sharks they had seen in years. It was roughly 5 meters, which is over 16 feet long. 

I meant it when I said this was going to be a BIG year, a BIG year for me, and a big, great white shark year.

I could write on, and on about my experience abroad, but it wouldn’t do you any good. You have to go. Have to go. No matter the cost, a trip in another country with students/friends your age, is priceless. When I applied to go to South Africa, I really didn’t know why I wanted to go, yeah it was a goal of mine to study abroad for some time, but I didn’t know why exactly. I do now. It was for me to meet new people, learn new, exciting things, and for me to be humbled. The people in the townships lived in houses, that most people in America wouldn’t consider a house. However, these people love their community, are not giving up, and are super optimistic about the future. 

One of the guys on the trip reminded me of an old analogy. There are two clocks in this world, a world clock, which is circular, and your clock, which is an hour glass. Time is not on your side, so you must do BIG, great things while hear on earth. Maybe it’s singing your school’s alma mater in a foreign country, or as little as making small conversation to a stranger on a plane, just go, time is wasting.  

Askar and I



Sunday, May 10, 2015

Chapter 41



Chapter 41
3 down, 1 to go
It’s beautiful
May 2015

Every single day something beautiful happens. No matter what. 

On May 5, 2015, I took my last final as an undergraduate junior. 3 years are gone, and only one remains. On the morning of my first exam, I woke up before my alarm to be blessed with a reminder. My alarm, set for exactly 6:50am, didn’t do any good that morning because God was showing me something beautiful. I woke up to the sun rising and shining its radiant beams through my bedside window.  Awestruck by its beauty I raced outside to snap a photo. Picture taking in the morning, while your phone is suspended in the air 10 flights up, can be quite nerve wrecking. However, I successfully snapped the picture without any harm to my phone, and captured something beautiful.
Throughout my time in college, my eyes have been opened to bigger things other than the rising sun. I have met successful people, been new places, and have learned how to do a statement of cash flows. I know you’re jealous about the last one. I’ve learned that college can truly open your eyes to HUGE beautiful things. I have said a thousand times, but I am from Valdese, NC. A small, quaint town that has a special place in my heart. However, Valdese was holding me back. College has my back. If you let it, college can do some beautiful things. 

A year from today, Mothers’ Day, I will graduate from college. A new chapter will end, and another will begin. It’s scary, exciting, and all the other emotions you can think up. However, when I was driving home after my final exam on May 5, I was reminded of something.
Every single day the sun rises, and the sun sets. That day I saw both. It was beautiful. It reminded me that no matter your status in life (college, marriage, or retirement) you have to take time to appreciate the beautiful things in life. As I wait to board a flight to London, which will eventually take me to South Africa, I wonder, what’s next? What is the next sight I will see that will take my breath away, or that will give me a new perspective? What it will be, I will never know, but God has been doing HUGE things in my life, and I know it will be something beautiful! 


Sunday, April 26, 2015

Chapter 40


Chapter 40

Checking in & Checking Out

April 2015

 

Chapter 40. Wow, it’s been a ride.

I hope you’re still intrigued by my stories/advice/life. LWOC (last week of class) is approaching, which is crazy. Crazy that I will only have one LWOC left of my undergraduate career after this one, and crazy how much can change from LWOC to LWOC.

My mom, your mom, and your friends’ moms probably don’t want to hear this, but here recently, I’ve almost checked out of school, and the same will happen to you. It’s difficult to get motivated for business ethics, law, analytics, and accounting, I know you’re jealous, but all majors have a semester where you might not enjoy the material. It makes it especially difficult to get motivated when there are so many exciting opportunities that await me in the next few weeks. The Buddy’s team is traveling to Chapman University in California for a start-up competition, I am going to South Africa for a 2-week study abroad program, and will be working a summer internship that will allow me to use my entrepreneurial passions. The feelings I have towards exams, papers, etc are much like my feelings I had during my senior year in high school, yet there is one big difference. In high school there wasn’t the worry of the “real world.” This “real world” is coming, and it’s coming quite fast. And please note, although I am not entirely motivated currently, the grind is approaching (FINALS week), and I will be checking in with authority.

A few weeks ago, I was traveling to another Buddy’s pitch when I received a phone call. The phone call was from Dina Mills, one of UNC’s entrepreneurial leaders. Her news almost caused me to wreck the car. She informed me that the Buddy’s team was chosen to represent UNC in California at the California Dreamin’ Competition at Chapman University.

Side note: sometimes when you receive super exciting news, you must act like a little kid. Get hype!

Of course, I accepted the invitation, but this was going to be the biggest pitch of the Buddy’s tenure, which would require a ton of preparation. But, we get things done, so the preparation is just a part of the fun, and excitement. I’m sure you’ll hear more about the trip in a coming chapter, but currently, we’re just practicing, practicing, and practicing some more. “You talkin’ about practice?”

Although a free, school paid trip to California is something I can’t wait for, I am more excited for my 2-week immersion in South Africa. Most colleges today have all kinds of study abroad programs, full-year, semester, summer, and 2-week programs. Since I’m a picky eater, staying longer than two weeks wouldn’t be healthy for my diet, no really. During my program, we will spend the first week in Johannesburg, and the next week will be in Cape Town. The trip will consist of culture immersion activities, company visits (since it’s a business school trip), and other activities, such as swimming with Great White Sharks. I have heard so many great things about the trip, and going to a new place is always an exciting adventure.

Last chapter I told you of my internship opportunities, and I have finally made a decision! I will be working with BootStrap Advisors, a small consumer-based investment/coaching firm in Durham, NC. The internship will allow me to be the head entrepreneur of a brand new product called, YesSkin! Hopefully one day, it’ll be a well-known brand, but if not, I can’t wait for this summer and all the opportunities is will hold. 

No matter if you’re checking in to a new country or a new job, or maybe checking out of school a bit early, make sure to be thankful of your current status. My accounting professor, CJ Skender, encouraged my class to call someone you love, or an old friend and let them know what they mean to you. It was in my BUSI 101 (Skender’s class) freshman year, that I started a countdown to graduation on my iPhone. That same countdown is almost at 365 days. It’s truly incredible what college can open your eyes too, so many new worlds, so many opportunities, and it’s all coming to an end in one year. One year, for more checking in, and checking out.

 

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Chapter 39



Chapter 39

The Internship Search

“What am I going to do?”

March 2015 

No matter what college you attend, searching for a summer internship is a necessity for most students. In rare occasions, students who plan on attending graduate school don’t have to work an internship, but it’s always a plus if you can add some experience to your resume.  For some, the internship search can be stressful, long, and have you asking yourself, “What am I going to do this summer?” I will use this chapter to help prepare you for your internship search, how to prepare for an interview, and how to decide between your internship offers. 

As mentioned before, internships are used as a “test.” For example, during my sophomore summer I had dreams of being a consultant for one of the “Big 4” firms. This dream was before I had actually done anything remotely close to consultant work. During my internship in London, I learned quickly that big city, big office settings weren’t my thing. Internships are the best way to introduce students to an industry without causing any financial harm to the individual. 

The best way to search for an internship is to first figure out what your interests are. For instance, are you particularly interested in a certain industry, such as marketing, sales, journalism, sports, education, or research? Once you find some interests you may have, you can then begin searching for companies that would allow you to explore that interest. In my case, I am interested in a number of different things. I was interested in marketing and entrepreneurship, so I applied for an internship at NBCU (Los Angeles), and also used AngelList (platform that lists start-up jobs/internships) to find other small opportunities.  Whatever your interests, there is an internship/opportunity. Make sure to take advantage of your universities career resources, these could include internship fairs, job expos, and mock interviews, which is arguably the most important skill when trying to land an internship. 

Like anything in life, the best way to get better at something is to practice. Universities offer a number of opportunities for interview practice, which I highly recommend taking advantage of. Practicing for interviews give you confidence for your real interviews. Another important strategy is to research the company in depth. For instance, looking at current news, past news, and offerings of the company will show that you have true interest in the company. When you know the person that will be interviewing you, I have found it helpful to research the interviewer. This allows you to find connections with the individual, which can help you frame your responses to some of their questions. In final preparation, expect the unexpected from your interviewer. During my interviews I have been asked a various amount of random questions such as: “If you had a magic wand…,” and “How many gas stations are in the U.S?” 

Following your interview you should always email a thank you to the person that interviews you. This shows continued interested, and it’s a sign of respect to the company representative.  
Depending on the internship, you should find out about the results of your interview within a few weeks of the interview. And when you receive the email, never, and I repeat NEVER accept the offer immediately. I have learned from my negotiations course that one must always send a counter-offer to the company that offers them a position. In some instances you may have more than one offer, so you can use your different offers to gage the amount of pay you believe you deserve. It’s also important to note: when sending the employer a counter-offer make a precise offer. Don’t simply send a range because this gives the employer more wiggle room. If plausible, send a thoughtful email explaining why you deserve an increase in pay/opportunity, and most of the time the employer will satisfy your request, or work with you. 

If you are offered multiple internship opportunities I suggest listing the opportunities side-by-side. I have found this strategy to be helpful in many aspects in life. I used the same strategy when deciding which college to attend, and it’s proven to be the best determinant. However, I realize that some opportunities will be almost equal, and very difficult to decipher which is best. This is when I draw a BIG circle. Think. Pray. Trust. The BIG man upstairs has a plan for you, you just have to have a little faith :)

One key factor in finding an internship that you are truly interested in and are excited about, is preparing yourself long before the search process begins. On each of my campus tours I tell the prospective students this simple bit of advice, “Your intern/job/life application begins the day you move-in freshman year. Each day, is a new day of new opportunity.” I have found complete satisfaction in living my college journey in that way. By chasing opportunities I knew that the question of “what am I going to do for summer internships/job?” wouldn’t be a situation of, I don’t have any options, but a situation where I had to choose between multiple opportunities. With multiple opportunities on my plate, I feel like I am eating at an all-you-can-eat buffet, but not a college cafeteria, something of higher quality. The only problem, I can only choose one entrée. I have made my pros/cons sheet, spoke with many of my closest advisors/family members, and I am drawing a prayer circle around my decision. Currently, I’m not sure what entrée/opportunity I will choose, but I do know for certain, I am going to do something amazing, that’s just what you do in a BIG year :)



Group of friends and I ventured to Jacksonville to watch the Heels play in the first round of the NCAA tournament. As you can tell (far right), I was a bit nervous towards the end of the game. The Heels were victorious!